What to Say to a Grieving Friend
The Comforter Karen Nicola The Comforter Karen Nicola

What to Say to a Grieving Friend

It is your job to step through your fear factors like a superhero, not to rescue them, but to be silent with them in their agony. That takes some super-human strength! There are no words that will take their grief away.  Your job is to support them in their grief, NOT to take it away or distract them.  Follow their lead. It is all about them.

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A Griever's Lament ~               God's Response
The Hurting Karen Nicola The Hurting Karen Nicola

A Griever's Lament ~ God's Response

I am told to take life one step at a time, but it is so dark, I can’t see the chasms to my right or left and I am afraid to move forward.  It feels like each day I am stumbling in the dark, which leaves my emotions bruised and battered. When sorrow is my constant companion, how am I to wake up and enter into the activities of “normal” people?

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