Grief Care Competency or Humility?
As I keep thinking about this, it seems to me that humility of heart might be the best prerequisite for authentically stepping close to someone in emotional pain and sorrow. There is so much we do not know.
Comfort the Grieving in Your Own Skin!
Keep in mind that it takes a zoo to comfort a grieving friend. All types of comforting friends, each doing your part to come along and support those who mourn are what makes a positive difference in the lives of the bereaved. The risk is to think others are doing something and they might not be doing anything.
Grief is only Beginning when the Service Ends
It is critical for us to support our friends to grieve, even though it is painful. However, we are to come alongside them not to provoke or prevent their suffering but to support them through it. May the Spirit of Comfort guide you as you stay close to your grieving friend.